. >> yeah, but two are twins. >> that was sarah jessica parker in the comedy," i don't know how shedoes it," but do we have ourselves to blame for being busy every day. if you live in america, you have probably had to listen to a lot of people tell you how busy they are. it is a boast disguised as a complaint. it is a reassurance. obviously your life cannot be silly, trivial or meaningly if you are so busy. i can't help but wonder whether all this hisry onic exhaustion is not a way of covering up the fact that most of what we do doesn't matter. tim, i have to tell you, i was reading the sunday times, i read your piece and i was so thrilled because one of my favorite things to do is sit on my front porch and do nothing other than stare at a 110-year-old elm tree in my front yard and i feel guilty about doing it but i wonderful inside. >> my editor told me one time. he is an editor of the times and he has got a wife and child. and i asked him what did you do? and he said i watched it get dark outside. he sounded like he really enjoyed it. >> as soon as the plane lands, the cell phones get